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Charlie's own training work — completely separate from the Butternut Box ambassador offer on this site.

By Char Marie · People-first sales training · Coming soon

The CHAR Method

Friend first. Sale second. Relationship always.

A practical manual for people who sell through conversation — in a shop, on the phone, in a salon or showroom, at an event, or in your own small business. CHAR is a way to be commercially clear while treating the person in front of you with care.

Connect · Hear · Advise · Relationship Learn it. Practise it. Live it.™ Sell like a friend. Succeed like a professional.
The CHAR Method™ — people-first sales training by Char Marie. Friend first. Sale second. Relationship always.

Why this page lives on DoggyWooff

The reason behind everything I do

Every guide on this site follows one rule: you should never feel like a target, a lead or a pound sign. That rule isn't a marketing trick I picked up last week — it's my method, built over nearly twenty years of selling on real shop floors, counters and event days.

DoggyWooff is where I put that method into practice, and The CHAR Method™ is where I teach it. Same person, same values — two different things. You can be commercially aware and kind at the same time. In fact, the two belong together.

The ambassador offer is one thing I recommend. The CHAR Method™ is how I recommend anything.

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My story

From Saturday girl to sales trainer

I didn't start out thinking I'd create a sales training method. I simply wanted to work, learn and prove I could do a good job. Here's the road that turned those years into a method.

  1. 14 · Saturday girl in a hair salon. My first job nearly broke my confidence — some days I went home in tears. It taught me how much the right environment matters, and how quickly harsh ones make people doubt strengths they already had.
  2. 17 · Supervisor and key holder. I qualified in beauty therapy and Level 2 makeup, tried salon life once more, then moved into fashion retail — where, still only 17, I was promoted to supervisor and key holder in a million-pound store. Maybe I wasn't the problem. Maybe I just hadn't found the right environment yet.
  3. 18 · Beauty counter manager. Six months into cosmetics I was managing a counter and two members of staff — and building my own self-employed makeup business, Charlie's Beauty Secrets, where the conversation mattered as much as the finished look.
  4. Then · Luxury cosmetics manager. Counter, team, targets and events for a well-known luxury brand inside a major department store. When management pushed me out, I learned to back myself — and to lead in a way that never took away someone's confidence.
  5. 25 · My own business. I built an online business that grew to around 80 people. It became extremely successful — then closed when the growth it needed needed investment I didn't have. So I started again. Starting again isn't glamorous, but it teaches you what's real.
  6. The proof · Same person, different counter. Back on a luxury cosmetics counter a couple of days a week, I sold around £200 of products in my 20-minute interview and won an internal mascara sales challenge within weeks. Not pressure — noticing, asking, remembering, explaining. On event days I'd be at the front of the counter for thousands of pounds in sales, and I was never thinking “how much can I make this person spend?” I was thinking: who is this person, and what do they need?
  7. 27 · I lost my dad. Nothing in my career had prepared me for that kind of pain. Targets, promotions and politics suddenly felt very small. Loss also changed my relationship with fear: a no still matters, but it doesn't define your worth.
  8. Now · The dog-food ambassador. I came back to what I'd always understood — people, relationships and sales — as an ambassador for a dog food brand. Same conversation, completely different product. That's when I stopped calling it an industry trick and named it a method: CHAR.

Nearly two decades taught me one lesson again and again: stop seeing the customer as a transaction. Start seeing the person. That is why I do what I do — and it is exactly how I'll talk to you about your dog's food.

The method

Four actions. One standard.

Work through the four actions in order, then adapt them to the actual conversation. They're a guide, not lines to memorise.

C

Connect

Build trust before thinking about the transaction, so the customer never feels approached for a target.

H

Hear

Understand the person rather than listening only for a selling opportunity.

A

Advise

Recommend honestly, explain why it fits what they actually said, and name the trade-off.

R

Relationship

Create an experience worth returning to and talking about — whether or not there's a sale today.

The CHAR promise

A customer should finish a CHAR conversation feeling understood, free to decide and clear about their options. A sale may follow; trust is the standard you practise every time.

Why the order matters: you can't advise well if you haven't heard enough, and you can't hear much if the person doesn't feel comfortable talking to you. The four parts work together — commercially capable and genuinely considerate, never one at the expense of the other.

The book

What's inside the Master Training Manual

25 practical chapters, four parts

Person before product and natural openings (Connect); better questions and hearing the concern behind the question (Hear); the CHAR Advice Bridge, the CHAR Edit and hesitation as information (Advise); aftercare, referrals without pressure and leaving people better — even with no sale (Relationship).

The CHAR Conversation Vault

Starting phrases for real conversations, with four rules for using them: borrow the structure, keep your voice, and never say a line that would feel false in your mouth.

The CHAR 30™

Thirty days of people-first selling — one small CHAR action a day (Days 1–7 Connect, 8–14 Hear, 15–21 Advise, 22–30 Relationship). Record what you noticed, not what you sold.

Assessments, toolkits & certificate

Part assessments, a Final Competence Check, coach and facilitator tools, delivery pathways and a completion certificate — for assessed or self-directed learning.

Companion volume: Workbook & Coaching Journal

Room to record the practice — reflections, CHAR 30 ticks, coaching notes. Find the matching section by heading, so both books stay usable together.

Who it's for

The new starter who needs confidence. The high performer who wants a repeatable method. The manager who wants a better way to coach a team. The self-employed seller who wants to grow without losing their personality. And anyone who wants success without making another human being feel like a target, lead or pound sign.

Master edition

The CHAR Method

People-first sales training

Friend first. Sale second. Relationship always.

Learn it. Practise it. Live it.™

Char Marie · © 2026

The Master Training Manual

The complete manual: my story, the four-part method, 25 chapters, the Conversation Vault, the CHAR 30™, assessments and toolkits — 113 pages of it — plus the companion Workbook & Coaching Journal.

Coming soon · Join the waitlist

DM the word CHAR to @doggywooff50_char1990 on Instagram and I'll tell you the moment it's available. Formats and prices will be confirmed at launch.

No spam, no pressure — the method wouldn't allow it.

The small print, in plain English

  • • The manual is an educational resource. It doesn't guarantee sales, income, referrals or business results — outcomes vary with product, market, audience, activity, skill, timing and consistency.
  • • A CHAR certificate records completion of this training only. It is not an externally accredited qualification.
  • • The CHAR Method™, CHAR 30™, “Friend first. Sale second. Relationship always.” and “Learn it. Practise it. Live it.™” are brand identifiers of Char Marie, © 2026. All rights reserved.
  • • This page is Char Marie's own training work. It is independent of, and not endorsed by, any dog food brand — and it is separate from the Butternut Box ambassador offer on this site.

Quick answers

CHAR Method questions

What is The CHAR Method™?

It's Char Marie's people-first approach to selling, built on four actions used in order: CONNECT (build trust before the transaction), HEAR (understand the person's real priority), ADVISE (give an honest recommendation and name the trade-off) and RELATIONSHIP (care for the person after the decision, including when the answer is no).

Who is it for?

Anyone who sells through conversation: shop and counter staff, phone and showroom teams, salon and event sellers, managers who coach a team, and self-employed sellers who want to grow without losing their personality.

Is The CHAR Method™ a sales script?

No. CHAR gives you principles, not lines to memorise. The CHAR Conversation Vault offers starting phrases for real conversations — you borrow the structure and make the language fit your voice, the setting and the person in front of you.

What is the CHAR 30™?

A 30-day practice tracker: one small, honest CHAR action each day. Days 1–7 focus on CONNECT, days 8–14 on HEAR, days 15–21 on ADVISE and days 22–30 on RELATIONSHIP. You record what you noticed — not what you sold.

Is the CHAR certificate an accredited qualification?

No. A CHAR certificate records completion of the training and its assessment only. It is not an externally accredited qualification and it does not guarantee sales results.

How can I get the Master Training Manual?

It's coming soon. Join the waitlist by DM-ing the word CHAR to @doggywooff50_char1990 on Instagram and you'll be told the moment it's available, with formats and prices confirmed at launch.

Is this part of the Butternut Box offer?

No. The CHAR Method™ is Char Marie's own independent training work and is completely separate from the Butternut Box ambassador offer elsewhere on this site. The ambassador offer is unaffected.

Learn it. Practise it. Live it.

Join the CHAR waitlist: DM the word CHAR to @doggywooff50_char1990 on Instagram and you'll hear the moment the manual is ready.

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